5 Ways to be a Queen in your own life
Believing in yourself and loving yourself is very important, even when life doesn’t always go as planned or when negative things that you have no control over sometimes happen. Choma, don’t forget that you are a queen. You deserve to know your worth and hold your head high no matter what. Remember that you can do anything, and achieve your dreams, regardless of what happens in life. So, to help you realise your beauty and your power, here are five ways you can learn to own your invisible crown and wear it every day.
Reject the idea of failure
Being a queen means thinking like one Choma. Always remember, queendom is a mindset. So no matter what has happened to you in the past or what is happening to you right now - remind yourself that it is just part of the process but it’s not the story of your life. You don’t fail, you just have stumbling blocks along the way. Tell yourself that you will overcome and survive anything that life throws at you. Because that’s just what a queen does.
Fall in love with the mirror
It’s not about being vain or spending a whole lot of time in front of the mirror. It’s about knowing, every time you look into the mirror or every time you pass your reflection, that the person staring back at you is pure royalty and an absolute beauty - and deserving of everything that life has to offer. Your body is the only one that you have. You can’t exchange it, you can’t replace it and you can’t get rid of it - so the last thing you should do is hate it. Love yourself, respect yourself and appreciate the kind of beauty you have.
Don’t compare yourself
A queen knows that she is unique and that there is absolutely no one like her. Stay confident in your own abilities and your values as a person no matter where you are or what you do - whether you’re walking into a room full of people or scrolling through your timelines on social media. Also remember that being a queen is not a competition. You being a queen doesn't mean that others around you can’t be queens too. Your friends can all be queens without you feeling like they’re taking your crown away from you. A queen knows how to be her best self while respecting others’ being their best selves too.
Don’t be a follower
Queens don’t follow the crowd, especially if the crowd tends to make bad decisions. Being a queen means not allowing yourself to be easily influenced and not doing things just because you feel pressured or because everyone else is doing it. Make decisions that are good and right for you. Be the leader of your life.
Know your worth
Lastly Choma, don’t settle for less than what you deserve. In all parts of your life, always aim for the best things for yourself. There’s no such thing as being too ambitious so dream as big as you want to dream and don’t be afraid to go for the things you really want. Don’t ever settle for less, not in your relationship, not in your education, not in your dreams - not in your life in general. A queen never asks for less than what she knows she deserves.
Having the mindset of a queen will get you through almost anything and will help you on your very important journey towards self-love. Are you ready to adjust your crown and take on the day?
Go on and slay Choma!
Remember, if you or a friend need advice or help, you can contact me here on Ask Choma, send me a Facebook Message, a Twitter DM, or a WhatsApp Message (071 172 3657).
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