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Victim blaming is when a victim of rape is told to take responsibility for the crime, or that both the victim and the rapist should be equally blamed, which is wrong.
Have you heard about ‘stealthing’ Choma? It’s a disturbing ‘new trend’ where guys remove a condom during sex without their partner knowing.
When it comes to consent, it’s not just about saying no, it’s about saying yes too – saying what we are and are not comfortable with regarding our bodies and sexuality.
While condoms seem quite straightforward when it comes how they work and how to use them, there are a few mistakes you might be making Choma. Here are ten.
Being sex positive means having a healthy and positive approach to sex and sexuality. Now, how do you stay sex positive every day? Here are a few ways.
Let’s face it Choma, there are some conversations that seem a little too awkward to have with your partner, especially conversations about sex. But expressing yourself is important.
You’ve probably heard the term ‘slut’ many times. It’s often said as an insult to girls and women. Some people say it without even knowing what it means or how harmful saying it can be.
If you're trying to figure out where you stand with the person you’re with, here are a few signs that they just want to keep things purely physical.
It’s never a bad idea to seek information that will help you know better, but the wrong information can actually cause you to make unhealthy decisions. So what do you think Choma, are your sexpectations healthy?
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