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Relationships are not that scary and can actually be a lot of fun as long as they are healthy and as long as you are happy. Here is a bit of advice for your first relationship
Have you ever been in a 'complicated relationship'? They can be tricky, right choma? But what do they really mean for you and how do you manage it?
Choma, I'm not going to lie, break-ups aren’t pleasant. Whether you were dumped, or you did the dumping, it’s never fun.
Have you ever stopped to question some of the things that happen in movies though? Yes, the couple does seem to end up happily ever after but real life is very different to the movies.
Have you ever been in this situation Choma, where you're in two minds about leaving because, while the relationship is not that good, it’s also not THAT bad.
You might have a good idea of what an unhealthy relationship looks like but what does it look like when the relationship is good and healthy? Here are a few signs.
Do you ever feel like you’re not being heard in your relationship? Like your thoughts and feelings aren’t being considered? Are you being treated as an equal?
Have you ever scrolled through couples’ pics on your Insta feed and felt a bit envious of their picture-perfect relationship?
Question of the Month: I often get asked a lot of relationship questions, especially questions relating to being attracted to someone, such as: “How do I approach my crush?” Here's my advice.
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