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Relationships are not that scary and can actually be a lot of fun as long as they are healthy and as long as you are happy. Here is a bit of advice for your first relationship
Have you ever been in a 'complicated relationship'? They can be tricky, right choma? But what do they really mean for you and how do you manage it?
Choma, I'm not going to lie, break-ups aren’t pleasant. Whether you were dumped, or you did the dumping, it’s never fun.
Have you ever questioned some things that happen in movies? Yes, the couple seems to end up happily ever after but real life is very different from movies.
Have you ever been in this situation where you're in two minds about leaving because, while the relationship is not that good, it’s also not THAT bad?
You might have a good idea of what an unhealthy relationship is, but what does a good and healthy relationship look like? Here are a few signs.
Do you ever feel like you’re not being heard in your relationship? Like your feelings aren’t being considered? Are you being treated as an equal?
Have you ever scrolled through couples’ pics on your Insta feed and felt a bit envious of their picture-perfect relationship?
QOTM: I often get asked a lot of relationship questions, especially questions relating to being attracted to someone, such as: “How do I approach my crush?” Here's my advice.
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