STI stigma is the harmful shame and judgement attached to having an STI, which can lead to people avoiding getting screened and treated, for fear of being discriminated against. Here are 5 things you should know about it.

Not all STIs are symptomatic

The belief that STIs always show symptoms is a myth. Some STI’s are asymptomatic (have no symptoms), while some have very subtle, unnoticeable symptoms. The only way to know if you or your partner have an STI is by getting screened regularly.

Stigma causes fear

A lot of the time, people are more afraid of what other people will say or think of them, so they choose not to get tested for STIs and HIV. This is because of the judgement and shame from communities when people disclose that they have an STI. It’s also a result of the belief that people who get infected with STIs are promiscuous (have a lot of sexual partners). This is not true, Choma; anyone can be exposed to an STI.

STI stigma encourages slut-shaming

Since STI stigma is based on the belief that people who are promiscuous or display sexual freedom are the only group at risk of getting STIs, it encourages slut-shaming. This behaviour makes women feel bad for enjoying sexual experiences and being free in the way they dress and express themselves. Slut-shaming is not cool because it fuels rape culture and other behaviours that shame and oppress women.

Not all STIs are from sex

Not all STIs are from having sexual intercourse with someone. STIs like syphilis and HIV can be transmitted from a mother to their unborn child or even during birth. This is why it’s not only important for expectant mothers to get tested and get prenatal care, but also for people to be more sensitive when speaking about STIs and HIV. It’s our duty to challenge and uproot stigma in our communities, friend groups and families.

A lot of STIs can be treated

STI stigma promotes the idea that STIs are some kind of badge that a person is stuck with for life, but this is not true. A lot of STIs can be treated and you can avoid getting re-infected by using a condom during sex. It’s also important to note that there’s usually medication to help people living with chronic (untreatable) STIs live long and healthy lives.

At the end of the day, STI stigma does more harm than STIs themselves, since it prevents people from seeking help and living healthier lifestyles. It’s important to know that STIs can affect anyone and most of them can be treated. There’s no reason for people to be shamed and judged, we can all lead healthy lives if we help create an environment that allows this.

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