Accepting that a relationship is no longer working and calling it quits is difficult. It’s only natural to try and stick it out in the hopes that things will work out. Walking away from a relationship that isn’t working can save you from getting your heart broken. I’ve put together 5 signs that will tell you if it’s time to end things with your partner.

You’ve broken up before

If you’ve broken up before, but still feel uncertain about the relationship, then this could be a sign that the relationship is beyond repair. This is a clear sign that there are issues that can’t be resolved between you and your partner, but one or both of you are still holding on to the hope that it can still work out.

You’re not yourself around your partner

The thought of being around your partner makes you cringe. You fear being yourself and end up concealing the real you whenever you are around your partner. This can be caused by being previously abused or feeling like you’re not enough for your partner, so you pretend to be someone else just to be loved and accepted by them. Your relationship might be beyond repair because you won’t be able to pretend forever.

The bond is no longer there

When you and your partner are no longer emotionally connected, then it can be a sign that you are over each other. The need to stay with each other is strengthened by your feelings for one another. If the bond no longer exists then it can be difficult to continue and build a healthy relationship. This can be a sign that it might be time to walk away.

The relationship is toxic

An unhealthy relationship is mostly bad than it is good. Most toxic relationships get worse instead of getting better, so this is a sign that the relationship is over. You’re not supposed to be spending most of your time stressing about your relationship or asking yourself if it’s really worth it, because chances are, you’re putting up with way more than you should be.

One-sided effort

A relationship where only one partner is making the effort to make things work is not healthy. This can be a sign that your relationship has reached the end because if only one partner is interested in making things work, it won’t last. A relationship is sustainable if both parties are willing to make it work.

Knowing when to walk away from a relationship that is no longer good for you is essential. It will save you time and heartache. It’s okay to end a relationship, just be honest with yourself and your partner if things are not working for you. When love is not healthy it’s not worth the sacrifice.

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