In a world often overshadowed by challenges and uncertainties. I have found myself as a strong mother, sister, aunt as well as a daughter who had the strength to embrace my HIV status as it was with full courage.

Consider the story of my life as that of a young woman who despite facing numerous challenges, has inspired many young women who could not come out and speak about their own HIV statuses to gather the courage and accept their situations as they were.

There is a metaphor that says, “Even the smallest star shines brighter in the dark“. In the same way, life has presented us with obstacles and difficulties. It is precisely in these moments of darkness and adversity that I have found myself as the small star that lightened the paths of those who thought that HIV was their worst darkest fear and encouraged them that life does not end because you are HIV positive.

I have encouraged many people to let go of the negative thoughts that keep wandering in their minds and inhibit their growth.  We should accept whatever God throws at us because there is always light at the end of the tunnel.

I decided to embark on a journey some years back where I launched my own Facebook page where I have not been ashamed to take my medicine (ARVS) on Facebook Live. I also have a great mass of followers who support me. My page has helped many women to be on medication and know their HIV statuses and be confident.

In conclusion, I would like to say everyone is equal and beautiful the way they are. This statement encourages us to seek out and cherish the light within ourselves and others. By embracing ourselves, we can find inspiration, hope and knowledge that, like the stars in the dark, night sky we each possess the capacity to shine brightly regardless of our challenges.

FB handle: I’m living with HIV and I’m beautiful.

Lorinah Siphiwe Khumalo

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