Reasons people don’t use condoms when they should

5 Common Condom Excuses You Need to Stop Believing, Choma

If you’re sexually active—or thinking about having sex for the first time—using protection should be your top priority. But let’s be real, Choma, you’ve probably heard a ton of excuses from friends or even thought of a few yourself.

Excuses like:

• “It just doesn’t feel the same.”
• “Putting it on ruins the moment.”
• “Condoms are only for promiscuous people.”

Well, here are a few more excuses you might be familiar with—but it’s time to leave them behind!

1. “I Get Strange Looks When I Buy Them”

Nervous about buying condoms at the store because you’re worried about what the cashier might think? Don’t let that hold you back!
Buying condoms shows maturity and responsibility. If someone throws shade, that says more about them than it does about you.
Pro tip: Buy condoms with confidence! You’re taking care of yourself, and that’s something to be proud of.

2. “They Don’t Look Like They Have an STI”

Did you know that many sexually transmitted infections (STIs) don’t show any visible symptoms? Someone might look perfectly healthy and still be carrying an STI.
That’s why it’s crucial to use protection every time you have sex, even if you both get tested regularly.

3. “I’m On the Pill, So I Don’t Need a Condom”

Yes, the pill is great for preventing pregnancy or balancing hormones, but here’s the truth:
The pill does NOT protect you from STIs, including HIV. Condoms are the only form of contraception that protects you from both pregnancy and STIs.

4. “I’m a Lesbian, So It’s Not Necessary” or “I Don’t Need Protection for Oral Sex”

Think again, Choma!
STIs can be spread through skin-to-skin contact and bodily fluids, not just penetrative sex.

Ever heard of dental dams? They’re a great way to protect yourself during oral sex.
No matter who your partner is, unprotected oral sex still carries the risk of STI transmission.

5. “Brand Condoms Are Expensive, and Government Condoms Aren’t Sexy”

We get it—condoms can be pricey, and the well-known blue-and-yellow pack might not feel that “cool.”
But did you know that Choice condoms now come in different flavors and stylish packaging?

Pro tip: Add condoms to your toiletry budget along with other essentials like deodorant, pads, tampons, and lotions. Prioritizing your health is always worth it.

Final Thoughts: Protect Yourself, Choma

Your health and well-being should always come first. Don’t let anyone manipulate you into thinking that unprotected sex is better.

Love yourself enough to say NO to sex without a condom. 💜

Stay safe, Choma!