Living with HIV: Understanding Stigma and How to Overcome It, Choma

Living with HIV isn’t much different from living without it, especially when you’re healthy and taking care of yourself. If you were born with HIV, you probably know this well. Often, the real challenge isn’t the virus itself but the misunderstanding and stigma from people who don’t fully understand HIV.

Here’s how to deal with stigma, Choma, and live your best life.

What is HIV Stigma?

HIV stigma happens when people treat someone with HIV negatively or discriminate against them simply for having the virus. This fear often comes from misinformation and a lack of understanding about HIV.

If you’re young and living with HIV, facing this stigma can feel overwhelming. It might even make you believe that something is wrong with you. But remember:
You are not the problem, Choma—people’s misconceptions about HIV are.

What is Self-Stigma?

Self-stigma is when you start believing the negative things others say about living with HIV. This internalized fear or self-discrimination can impact your:

• Self-esteem
• Confidence
• Mental health

It can even lead to depression. That’s why it’s important to take care of yourself—physically, mentally, and emotionally.
You deserve to live a healthy, happy life, just like everyone else.

Why Stigma is Harmful

Stigma can be more harmful than HIV itself. Here’s why:

• It creates unnecessary fear and discrimination.
• It makes it harder to talk about HIV.
• It discourages people from seeking support and treatment.

When people don’t feel comfortable discussing HIV, it can prevent them from accessing the care they need. The good news?
The more we talk about HIV, the more we break down the stigma.

How to Deal with HIV Stigma

1. Empower Yourself Through Education

Knowing your rights is a powerful tool.

• As someone living with HIV, you are protected by the law.
• Section 9 of the South African Constitution (Equality Right) protects you from discrimination.

Don’t hesitate to educate others about HIV if you feel comfortable doing so. Sometimes, seeing you live a normal, healthy life can change people’s minds.

Remember:
You also have the right to privacy. You don’t have to disclose your status if you’re not ready or if it could put you in danger.

2. Join a Support Group

You don’t have to face HIV stigma alone.

• Connect with others who understand what you’re going through.
• Join an HIV support group or contact one for help at 011 482 8297/8.

Support groups offer a safe space to share your experiences and receive encouragement.

3. Put Your Wellbeing First

Your wellbeing should always come first. Here’s how to protect yourself:

• Value yourself over others’ opinions.
• Recognize that discrimination often comes from fear or ignorance, not from something wrong with you.
• Manage your stress before trying to address others’ anxieties about your status.

You Are More Than HIV

HIV doesn’t define who you are. Thanks to advances in medicine, people living with HIV can lead long, healthy lives.
You are a conqueror, Choma.
Be proud of who you are, and never let HIV hold you back from achieving your dreams.

If you ever need someone to talk to, you can always Ask Choma. We’re here for you.